For awhile it was a bit overwhelming (which brought on a ton of negative emotions and thoughts) coming to the realization that I’m getting oldER.
I snapped out of that shit. Having gone through the things I have; I’m a #survivor
of rape, sexual abuse, and domestic violence. Dealing with years of #infertility
. Dealing with the heartbreaking decision of going forth with a #hysterectomy
. #mystory #notashamed
Plus losing my late husband to cancer and then the death of my mother (I’m finally at a place of peace about her passing) plus my sister. Not to mention all the other things in between.
I’m embracing getting oldER because I’ve come to realize that I’m a strong ass woman that’s still here; in-spite of the odds that have always been stacked against me.
I no longer put my happiness in the hands of others. My mental health and well being comes first. I’ve come to understand the importance of taking care of my #heatlth
through fitness and eating #heathy
I don’t look for acceptance or approval from anyone about my life either. However, I do welcome constructive criticism depending on whom is giving it.
I’m just trying to be a good person, that does good in this world while enjoying every day that I’m blessed with.
#beyou #unapologeticallyme #midlifewomen #wordporn #bunmiladitan #50andfabulous #fiftyandfabulous