The words that stuck with me when my ex was annoyed the ONE time I asked him to give the kids a bath because I was EXHAUSTED! 2 kids under the age of 3, I was a full-time office manager and enrolled in 6 courses while working on my Accounting Degree. I cooked dinner 98% of the nights we were together. The house was kept up, the kids were clean, I had sex when he wanted, I catered to him and "knew my role." And the one time I needed help, I was chastised. It was then that a shift took place. Many signs were pointing to "LEAVE!" But up until then, I didn't want to be a single mom, baby mama #3
, and I knew I wanted to get married one day. I questioned who would want me with my baggage.
As women, we give our all to men. We raise the kids, run the house, enable our mates, and cater to them. Often, we get nothing in return. We date down and settle all for the sake of love. We put up with things because that's what relationships are, right? Staying through the good and the bad, no matter what? You don't just leave when things get rough? Yes and no. Situations arise but stress shouldn't be the norm. There should be a balance and understanding. There should be love and respect. There should be communication and accommodation. It shouldn't be one-sided. It shouldn't be one stressed and one living well. It shouldn't be a woman doing all that she can to prove herself to a man.
Men must step up, but I'm not called to them. I'm called to the single ladies that desire true love. Especially those that are mothers that turn around and raise sons and daughters that become husbands and wives. Maybe no one taught you about love, relationships, and marriage. Maybe you've questioned your worth. Perhaps you thought you had something to prove and it's why you stayed longer than you should have. It doesn't have to stay the way it's been. Today can be the first day of the rest of your life if you want it to be. When you've decided that you want to do things differently, let's talk! --> bit.ly/trymegirl
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