Breadcrumbing!!! There's two types!!
The first one is usually with people who are seeking a sexual partner under the lies of wanting a future relationship or being in one:
1."We can be together when you (fix your credit, get a job, lose weight, stop irking)"
2."If I get together with you now I'll (lose everything, have no time for insert excuse, lose money, lose family etc)"
3."I want to be with you I just have to (work on me, get my paper up, get my ex to give me up, be able to gain custody of children, fix myself)".
This type of Breadcrumbing can keep you as a fuck buddy for years. Sure you may feel like a gf/bf. Even a spouse but the absence of a title usually keeps you around for hope that one will come if you just help them get through it! Then they'll claim you. The only thing keeping them from claiming is them. They don't want too. And if you're taking the breadcrumbs then they don't have too.
The 2nd type is with people who are in "bare tree" relationships. There's a stump (kids, history, social media presence) but no fruit. If something terrible were to happen you might get a shout out in the obituary but zero life insurance :
1.Small gifts given after big betrayals (balloons, jewelry, groceries, pastries after constant cheating or ignoring)
2. Future promises but no plans (they'll move in with you but you're the only one searching real estate, suggesting trips but not planning one, suggesting children during or after sex but no other time, goals that they talk about but only you act).
3. Tearing down an ex or person they cheated with to boost you "they don't treat me how you do" ( but they still are publicly, sexually or socially with them)
"They're so ugly" or "They're boring" (yet you may go hours even days without hearing from them. What could be so entertaining?). "I love you more than them" (but the other person isn't aware of this otherwise they'd be gone)
Breadcrumbing is done when the trauma bond is strong. If you don't accept the breadcrumbs they might leave!! And that's keeps you gobbling up what you can.
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